How To Win Her Back

If you’ve recently split and decided being single is not all it’s cracked up to be. There are a couple thing that you simply must not do if you have designs to get your ex back. Most people fall into the trap of doing these no-no’s and ruin any chance they have.

1 – Telling lies to others about your ex

This little no-no will put an end to any possible chance you have of getting them back. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. And as far as I was concerned my recent ex is definitely going to stay that way…my ex!

2 – Trying to make your ex feel jealous

Now, this can work to your advantage under certain circumstances. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. This can backfire big time. The jealousy you are looking for may turn to revulsion and they then know it’s over for good.

3 – The stalker

Do I really need to say anything at all about this one? I do, ok then. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. Worst case scenario you can get your self into trouble with the law, possibly even a jail sentence. Imagine what that’d do to your chances.

4 – Seeking revenge

If you are harbouring thoughts of revenge then you must ask yourself how badly you want to get your ex back. If you are prepared to do the dirty on them in any way at all you can’t really love them as much as you think. If you love someone you won’t hurt them, period.

5 – Pestering them with calls or texts

Being a text pest is nearly as bad as being a stalker. Constantly pestering your ex with texts and calls could be deemed as a form of torture. This is not the look you are going for. They may just ignore your calls but they may take it further and change their number. Then you’ve lost them forever.

So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. There’s lots of things you can do to help your situation but those aren’t any of them.

If you want my advice, use the next few weeks to take some time out and get your emotions firmly in check With your emotions under control you give yourself every chance of steering your ex back to you.

When I split & wanted to get my wife back I turned to a step by step system that was so easy to follow a child could have done it.

Getting your ex back is a choice, not a chance.

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