How To Win Her Back

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …

“I’m afraid of being hurt again, but I really wish to reach my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?

You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can wait until you’ve had enough time in between the hurt in your previous relationship or 2) begin healing and letting go of the past. Considering you want to find your soul mate, then I would begin the task of letting go. It is faster and easier than you imagine. Getting help from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the path.

Being guided to do release work is a path of releasing and letting go from your previous relationship. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are making new space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.

I realize some of you are crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be forgiven for his behavior. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You are allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow trickle in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Furthermore, that slow energy leak prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your power in the moment, do you think you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, clutter up your energy field and prevent you from moving in the right direction to creating the life you were meant to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.

I have found that the topic of forgiveness can be a complicated one. First off, I’m not talking of the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone’s bad behavior. It is important to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s essential to know what will work for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the space of hurt, you’ll either attract more hurt or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.

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