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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …

“I’m afraid of being hurt again, but I really wish to reach my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?

You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can wait until you’ve had enough time in between the hurt in your previous relationship or 2) begin healing and letting go of the past. Considering you want to find your soul mate, then I would begin the task of letting go. It is faster and easier than you imagine. Getting help from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the path.

Being guided to do release work is a path of releasing and letting go from your previous relationship. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are making new space for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.

I realize some of you are crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be forgiven for his behavior. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You are allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow trickle in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Furthermore, that slow energy leak prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your power in the moment, do you think you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, clutter up your energy field and prevent you from moving in the right direction to creating the life you were meant to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.

I have found that the topic of forgiveness can be a complicated one. First off, I’m not talking of the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone’s bad behavior. It is important to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It’s essential to know what will work for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the space of hurt, you’ll either attract more hurt or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Have you ever wondered if you’re with the ‘right’ one? How do you really know for sure? That is a question I get asked when a relationship has several ups and downs. The problem could either be you are experiencing many mixed signals, or it takes lots of hard effort to have the relationshiop run smoothly. Do not get me wrong, a relationship does take effort, but they need not be hard labor. Communication is pretty easy. You should feel free to say what is on your mind. When situations get hairy, and they will, you have the courage and presence of mind to smoothe things over at a later date by taking responsibility for your actions or words.

A good relationship shouldn’t feel like difficult work. Love and mutual respect are at the core of any relationship. That being said, you should never underestimate the power of the Ego to turn things upside-down. Not understanding where you’re at in your personal level of maturity, it is hard to know what is happening with you. In any relationship, you have the opportunity to remake what you have. That is right. You can remake your present relationship. Anyone dedicated to being in a lasting, loving relationship will need to remake it using relationship advice to keep it fresh and alive.

I am going to help you purge all of the mixed signals you’ve been taught concerning your emotions. You are going to attain the clearness of what your emotions are trying to communicate to you; and best of all – you will never anymore be in the dark about whether you are ATTRACTING a wonderful relationship or RESISTING one. Bottom line is, you desire to realize how to get the Law of Attraction working for you.

The real question is are YOU letting the Law of Attraction to work for what you REALLY desire? In other words, the Law of Attraction is continuously sending back to you your dominant emotion. What you want to know is, what is my primary vibration on the matter of attracting a perfect relationship? I answer these kinds of questions and many more pertaining to new relationship advice for women in my Law of Attraction Life Coach and training programs.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

“I don’t wish to be hurt again, but I really wish to reach my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate”?

You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you’ve had adequate time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) begin moving on and releasing the past. Since you desire to find your soul mate, then I’d do the work in releasing. It is quicker and simpler than you would think. Getting help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.

Getting guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and letting go from your previous relationship. Think of releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.

I can hear some of you right now crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You are allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It is a slow leak in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Furthermore, that slow energy leak prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in this present moment. When you don’t have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It makes it that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from moving in the right direction to having the life you were meant to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.

I have found that the idea of forgiveness can be a complicated one. Firstly, I am not speaking about the kind of forgiving where we were excusing someone’s poor behavior. It’s essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It’s important to understand what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the area of pain, you’ll either attract more hurt or have a hard time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.

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A woman named Helen from Ohio asked me about letting herself forgive her Ex so she could get past the pain in her life. Helen really desires to attract a relationship that will not only last a long time, but one that will also become more intimate with time. Many people can relate to that question. They can appreciate the pain they’re holding on to from a past failed marriage. Law of attraction coaching for your relationship, whether it’s past or present can help. A few love coaching sessions specific to your relationship predicaments can be wonderfully helpful.

First, you need to give yourself a hand for actually ATTEMPTING to forgive your ex. That’s a big deal. If you will set your energy to release a tiny piece every day, within a very small amount of time you’ll see your energy release and dissapear. It’s so important to forgive even for those of you who don’t think there’s any more left to release. Forgiveness is a lifelong commitment and one that releases YOU the most. Another helpful exercise is to choose some things that you actually appreciate about your former mate. These things don’t have to be related to the relationship. Perhaps you enjoyed the way he knew how to fix everything. Or you loved what a tightly knit group of friends he has. Maybe you loved his smile. It can be whatever you want. The point is to start to look for aspects that you appreciated. You do this for no other reason than to shift your energy about him. You lighten up your intentions.

When you forgive you generate space. Space to attain more of what’s wanted. And for all of us, what’s wanted is to receive more love. I teach all about releasing, clearing out and making space both physically and energetically in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

“I frequently seem to create a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What can I do to change my vibration”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main negative vibration I had from my lengthy history of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or was travelling a great deal.

When you continue attracting unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is something in you that has a fear of commitment, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to accept at the moment, but that is what I have found to be the situation most of the time.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get extremely clear about what you want. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you desire in your ideal match.

You create the list for yourself so you can get clarity concerning what it is you really desire. You’ll begin to see where any weaknesses are in yourself as you make the list. You will see where you need to go to increase your level of creation or belief in the chance of receiving what you’re desiring.

To evoke the state of feeling happy expectancy, continue by asking yourself the question “Why do I desire it”? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, imagine all the wonderful activities you’ll do together. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it’ll be like to be with someone who’s romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.

You create the list for yourself, and the Universe recognizes your clear vibration – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!

Most of us have been told as a child to accept whatever you get, it is not polite to ask for favors, why can’t you just be happy with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I suggest you ask for it all and keep creating yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Donna from North Carolina wrote me to ask me that question As a Law of Attraction relationship coach, here’s the relationship advice I have for her. Donna, Congratulations that you realize how critical it is to release the past before a love relationship can come in.

The Law of Attraction states “you attract more of what you focus on.” Before we can welcome in our new love relationship, clearing out the past and healing old wounds is necessary. They take up emotional space. It’s impossible to occupy a space when that space is already taken. You’d never try to park your car in a spot that already had a car there.. Then why try to have a successful relationship when holding onto hurts or grudges from the past?

You can get online Law of Attraction relationship coaching to teach you how to create emotional space as a way of clearing that out. You want to look at what energy you’re holding about the hurt. Also you’ve got a belief that is running in the background that doesn’t serve you. Once you clear out that stuck energy pattern, you’ll be able to say ‘yes’ to love..

You may have a smile on your face and be dressed to the nines with a smile on your face, but you’ve got this energy field you’re dragging around that’s draining your energy and killing the possibility of living a happy fulfilling life in relationship~As long as you’re dragging around the past with all the drama and trauma, it doesn’t matter where you go or how good you look, you won’t be completely fulfilled.

You’ll learn much more about how to Make Space and Clearing Out the Old AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes… …

Peter from Florida asks: How can I improve my current relationship? How can I super charge my romance?

Thank you, Peter. It’s wonderful that a lovely gentleman is asking this question..You see gals, there are lots of romantics out there. I got one, and so can you..

As much as it seems that the thrill or spark has diminished over time, believe it or not, it’s a matter of focus and intention..When we choose to become purposeful and focused on an outcome, we can see shifts in a matter of moments.

In the day to day routine of life, we all need to take a moment and prioritize what’s important. You’re right to be asking about how to improve your current love relationship because having a wonderful, thriving, loving relationship is foundational to the rest of the areas of your life.

What you place your attention on will expand in your experience. So it’s of high importance that if you want an improvement in your love life, then you have to shift focus and start looking for things in your mate that you appreciate. To help this along, think of what you really love about your mate. Spend moments every day musing about what was once delightful so you can re-create more of that.

Make lists and lists of what you love, appreciate, and enjoy about your relationship, either by looking at the past, or imagining the future. Remember, it’s ok to ask for love relationship advice. Beware however, if looking at these aspects causes you to feel lackful in any way. Such as, “oh, I wish it were like that” “Ah to be passionately in love again” “the good old days, like they’ll never return, then you’re doing the opposite of what you want. You’re attracting what you rather not experience.

I teach about how to use the Shifting Focus & the Pivoting Process AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …

So you’d like to understand to trust again even after being hurt from a difficult divorce. Getting support from friends and family can oftentimes be the worst place to turn if you desire to mend your soul and open your heart again.

If you’re having relationship advice dilemmas due to a person in the past had had an affair, it is conceivable to find a relationship again. A large tearing of trust can become extremely troublesome and have a lot of persisting power. Just the same, you should look for peace and healing before you can move on. I suggest that you be less judgmental of yourself and easy on yourself and keep finding the place of forgiveness and release. You want to create a relationship with a person you trust and open yourself with utterly, so you need to take out any persisting negative vibrations.

Sometimes it’s a worn out tale we tell ourselves and others that has us creating reasons to continue perpetuating the way we may live, or justifying our limitations.

Think about the beliefs you hold about you. I hope you’re analyzing the negative limitations that were created at a young age; the tales (that manifest as the truth) about you and why you haven’t been successful, why you cannot have what you want, why you are not good enough in the subject of love or just life in general.

I’d suggest you come up with a statement that summarizes that shadowy area or illogical belief. I call it an irrational belief because you have obviously gone through life taking care of yourselves incredibly successfully in many ways. You’re proficient in many areas, you excel in a few fields and you are down-right brilliant in others. You have increasing expectations and skills that, on the echelon of the intellect, prove to you that you ARE good enough – in many cases truly stunning.

What was that previous motto, name it your ‘life statement’ that sums up a tightly locked understanding that has little to do with your logic or intellect. Create a new life sentence like an affirmation that helps and strengthens you. You can recieve free Relationship Advice for Women After Divorce.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

So you would enjoy understand to trust again after being scarred from a painful break-up. Getting support from friends and family can sometimes be the worst place to go to if you want to heal your heart and open your heart again.

If you’re having relationship advice dilemmas due to someone in the past had been unfaithful, it is possible to love again. A huge breach of trust can feel exceedingly cumbersome and have a lot of staying power. Just the same, you do need to look for peace and a healthy state of mind before you can move on. I suggest that you be gentle and easy on yourself and keep looking for the place of forgiveness and release. You want to create a relationship with someone you trust and open your heart with completely, so you need to take out any lingering negative vibrations.

Often enough it is the same story we tell ourselves and others that has us making reasons to go on being the way we may live, or justifying our limitations.

Consider the “truths” you hold concerning your personality. I hope you’re considering the strong limitations that were created at a young age; the stories (that manifest as reality) about you and why you have not been successful, why you cannot have what you want, why you are not good enough in the area of relationships or just life in general.

I would like you to come up with a statement that sums up that shadow side or illogical belief. I call it an irrational belief since you have some how gone through life taking care of yourselves very successfully in a number of ways. You’re experienced in many fields, you excel in some areas and you’re down-right brilliant in others. You have increasing competencies and skills which, on the echelon of the intelligence, prove to yourself that you ARE good enough – in many places truly stunning.

What was that early belief, name it your ‘life sentence’ that summarizes a tightly held belief that has little to do with your logic or intellect. Create a new life sentence like an affirmation that helps and empowers you. You can recieve free Relationship Advice for Women After Divorce.

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A woman named Helen from Ohio came to me and asked about letting herself forgive her Ex so she could move on with her life. She really wants to attract a soul mate that will not only last forever, but one that will also become closer with time. Many understand that question. They can appreciate the pain they’re holding on to from a past failed marriage. Law of attraction coaching for your relationship, whether it ended years ago or is a current relationship can help. A few law of attraction coaching sessions specific to your relationship issues can be greatly enlightening.

Before you read any further, you need to pat yourself on the back for actually ATTEMPTING to forgive your ex-spouse. That’s huge. If you will set your intention to release a small bit each day, within a very small amount of time you’ll see your energy lift and lighten. It’s so important to release even for those of you who don’t think there’s anything left to release. Forgiveness is a process and one that releases YOU the most. Another helpful practice is to access some things that you love about your previous relationship. They don’t have to be related to the romance. Perhaps you liked the way he fixed things. Or you loved what a good circle of friends he has. Maybe you enjoyed his grin. It can be whatever you want. The reason is to start to look for qualities that you enjoyed. You do this for no other reason than to change your energy about him. You purify yourself.

When you let go of previous guilt you generate space. Space to create more of what’s desired. And for all of us, what’s desired is to receive more of what you want. I coach all about letting go, clearing out and making room both physically and energetically in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.

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